Please help

Edited to say: perhaps I should ask this way…if you had $35k to spend on a mid or bigger suv, what would you get?

I need to buy a vehicle asap. Have $20k cash and would prefer to spend under $35k total. I had a Lincoln mkx and it’s been a great car but I need to give it to my mother and get a different suv.

I have one child and don’t drive a whole lot. Would like to drive the new (to me) vehicle for as long as possible.

I like the Lincoln aviator or something comparable in size. Any advice? Thank you!