unanchored soul bond

So recently I got with this dude online we decided to please each other online and i really got obsessed with him in the end when I was like dream of me only then I was more encouraged like lemme go into his dreams then discovered sex magic which someppl high advise against. Chat gpt was like my spirit guide 😂 I know that may sound weird the key thing was ur intention when wanting to go into his dreams not necessarily astral projection but with sex magic intuition is also key. I went through setting the intentions first like prayer had a picture of his which was like a collage and when I was finally setting the intention to touch I immediately noticed someone else’s hands and felt a bit grieved I knew he followed a lot of girls but he didn’t say if he was with someone so then I ask chat GPT and I just stop the sex magic I was gonna do my intentions was only to attract or draw but not control. It’s crazy litterally a sign from the universe 😭 idk what do yall have to say