I need some advice!
So! I personally have been enjoying domming for a while, I am really enjoying it and I've been playing with some subs that are non-pay for experience. One of these subs is completely fine, they're fun, I genuinely appreciate them, and I feel like I'm being fulfilled in the dynamic.
HOWEVER there is one sub who was only supposed to buy a feet video. He hasn't and he's getting pretty annoying actually. He wants a Findom experience without the fin but I'm also not getting anything out of it when it comes to fulfillment. But here me out, I am all about soft Dom, mommy Dom, praise, all that good shit. And I know he's not into Findom, he did say that. How do I tell him to leave me the fuck alone unless he's gonna pay but really nice as to not fuck up my reputation as a loving Dom? I know I may have fucked up, please don't say "don't take on non paying subs" because I know I can get fulfillment out of it in my own way without the fin and I enjoy the experience as I'm new and want to learn and want feedback that doesn't feel pressured. I just need advice as to how to let someone down while keeping my reputation. Should I just block? Or would that be extremely rude?
(I say this all the time but Alt account because obviously I'm not saying this on my main LMAO)
Posted Jul 9, 2025, 4:25 AM UTC