My wife’s boyfriend is saying mean things to me!

I’m just so shaken up. My wife’s boyfriend keeps abusing me as I’m only at the cute and innocent age of 43. He’s been using slurs towards me that are very insensitive and triggering to me. First of all, he said that I smell like “a fucking garbage truck on fire” and told me to take a SHWER! When I was little I had the traumatic experience of getting shampoo in my eye and plus I’m pheromone maxxing for the Discord kitten. That’s not everything though, he had the nerve to tell me to GET A JB AND GO *UTSIDE! Discord is my job! I’m considering calling cps but he also said he’d buy me the Switch 2 if I “grew a pair”. What should I do?