Relationships and buying things 23F bf 21M
How often do you guys buy ur partners things or food? Is it often do you guys usually buy ur own stuff are u ever treated by ur partner? In the grand scheme we both have spent money on each other but the way I do it is more direct like buying him drinks or food knowing that it’s just going to him while he does provide weed when we smoke and it’s a lot of money ik but it also is for him too even tho we hang almost daily. I don’t know if it’s weird for me to get sad sometimes when we r at the gas station or like the store and I am wanting a snack but he has never bought me one or offered. Ik some relationships are 50/50 and that’s fine but im just like oop. And ik he isn’t working rn so money not necessarily coming in but he buys like stuff for his video games and shit 😭 ugh idk i want to see if @3 months i get flowers or something it sucks bc i do enjoy him and his presence and being with him but idk if this is Joe I want a relationship to be where we just hangout all the time it’s nice but at the same time I want more but also idek what? I’m not expecting everything under the sun but yk like we went to get ice cream the other day and like not saying I wanted him to buy me it bc he didn’t even get anything but it would’ve been cute/nice lol. We still haven’t been to like a restaurant together but I’m also Awko with that bc ikkk it will be split check which is fine but I’m just like and I oop sometimes yk yk anyways yeah, ik we r early in the relationship too but like idk.
Posted Jul 9, 2025, 6:03 PM UTC