27 [M4A] #EastCoast #NYC #Anywhere Searching for FLR

NSFWM4A

Can't believe I've taken to a reddit post to find a partner but crazier things have been done. I'm a 27 year old guy from NYC hoping to find a connection with someone who I can build a genuine connection with and who wants a D/s dynamic on top of everything else.

About me: I'm born and raised in the city but have only recently moved back after a brief adventure in the pacific northwest. I'm educated, quite tall, and caucasian with olive skin. I'm very much a creative type who's into all things art and culture. I'm quite social, love plants, movies, soccer and cooking (i'm a professional cook).

Physically speaking- I get a lot of attention and don't have any problems dating in a vanilla sense but have time and time again been expected to be the dominant one. I'm in good shape, and have a pretty smooth physique with a bubble butt. I've been called pretty and handsome in the same breath so I'm somewhere in the middle of the spectrum there haha

Kink wise: First and foremost, my biggest kink is pleasing who I'm with and putting their pleasure above my own. I'm very very open minded and will be the first to say that all of this really depends on chemistry but a few things I'll mention are body worship, TPE, chastity, pegging and all things to do with the mental aspect of bdsm/kink. I also do enjoy the concept of taking on gender play and expressing my fem side but not in a way that's degrading to femininity. There are a ton more and none of the above are real breakers!

Lastly, when it comes to the dynamic I seek, I'd be lying if I said that a full 24/7 dynamic didn't excite me but I just want to have a partner I can make happy and serve, someone to trust, grow with, and enjoy spending time with both in and out of the bedroom but where we both know that she makes the rules and is the dominant one.

I'm open to any connections that come my way and don't have a type so all are welcome (even if we're little far from eachother. I'd happily travel and relocate for the right person) Just please be over 21 and under 50.

If any of this post resonated with you and you're still reading at this point I hope you send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, where you're from and what you're into or hoping to find!

Really hoping that my person is out there

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 6:05 PM UTC · locked

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