new domme here just trying to find my pace not pretending to know it all

hi

i’m kinda new to this side of things not to being dominant that part’s always been there in how i carry myself but to the actual structure of ds the rhythm the rules the responsibility

i’m not here to play or prove anything i just want to do it right

i’d love to hear from other dommes how did you find your balance like how did you move from i like being in control to actually leading something real something that lasts

and if any subs want to share too i’d honestly love to hear what makes you feel safe what makes you want to follow not just obey

i’m still learning still soft in a lot of ways but i take this seriously and i’m here with my full heart