I hate the day I came out as pansexual

So for some context I’m a teenager and my family is really religious and Mexica and black.and me,my sister and my uncle are the only LGBTQ people in my family. I’m pansexual and my sister is bisexual and my uncle is trans. but anyways let’s get into the day I came out to my family so it was the Fourth of July and my whole family was at my house because we were having a cookout. So of course I thought it was the perfect time to come out. So i walked inside and asked my sister to gather the family inside. So once everyone was inside I just said it I’m pansexual and everyone stopped what they were doing and looked at me. It sounds like a movie i know but what I’m about to tell you i wish it was a movie. So my middle sister that is homophobic was the first person to say something and she said “so you are a gay little girl”. I couldn’t say anything I was too stunned to speak. And then my old ass grandma said “what fuck is a pansexual these kids these days always making up new nonsense sexuality’s”. After my grandma said that all hell broke loose, and everybody just started piling on. my grandpa even said pansexual isn’t a real sexuality like wtf? And after a few minutes of every one talking about ✨my sexuality✨ we moved past it and finish the cookout. But away that is why I hate the day I came out as pansexual because it was a nightmare