Gained clarity after my breakup, but choosing to walk alone now

I just went through an eye-opening breakup that really gave me a new perspective. Looking back, I realize I was helpful to my ex in many ways, and I’m grateful for that. But she told me I never truly listened or thought twice about how my actions affected her through good or bad. Hearing that was painful but necessary — it opened my eyes to how blind I was to her feelings.

Now that I have this clarity, I feel a strange kind of peace. I’m choosing to walk alone again, focusing on myself and healing. I genuinely wish her the best, but honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever try to date or be in a relationship again.

Just needed to get this out. Thanks for reading.