Some girlfriend stuff
So I don't really know wtd.
I dated my gf back in 2022 for about 3 months. We would hang out with her friends a lot and chat for most of the day and spend a lot of time together. (sleep calls etc bc we met online) Towards the end of that she started to get really reserved, wouldn't really talk to me as much or spend time together or sleep on call etc.
I think october of that year she broke up with me and just told me it was a family issue.
In 2023 we briefly stated talking again as friends. One of her other friends met with me and mentioned she was still interested in dating me and I still also had feelings for her. This would have been around August of that year. (dates probably don't really matter but here they are anyway)
So one day her and I called and talked and she asked me to be her boyfriend. She also started to explain that what happend when we broke up last time was that she had a lot of issues with her family and mental health and was depressed. I said yes and we got back together.
Fast foward about 6 or 7 months we were drinking / smoking and hanging out and I was pretty intoxicated and so was she. I was pretty much on the verge of falling asleep and she tells me that the real reason why we broke up was because one of her friends she went out with kissed her and she did nothing to stop it.
I asked her if it was something she wanted and she said no. So understandable. I think what really bothers me is that I feel like she lied to me several times and kept it hidden away. And we got back together on the premise that she was just having issues with her family. I'm not entirely sure what I would have said to her if she had told me the real reason when she had asked me to be her boyfriend.
I'm kind of sensitive to this kind of stuff so I personally feel like I'm exaggerating and it's not actually that important, but I also feel pretty sad about it still. WSID?
Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to respond
Posted Jul 9, 2025, 10:43 PM UTC