My(22F) bf(26M) doesn’t want to understand me. Why do men lack empathy?

My(22F) family wants to meet my boyfriend(26M). They keep yelling at me about it. I’ve tried asking my boyfriend and he said he has. I said seeing them and meeting with them are two different things. And he is not understanding that.

I tried to explain that the pressure is getting to me since I’m the only girl at my home and he is not getting it at all.

He’s not understanding that this could alleviate all the pressure I’m feeling here at home and I don’t know what to do now.

I tried telling him about this and my feelings and he basically said fuck my feelings. I don’t know what to do.