anonymous encounters

have any of you had sober anonymous sex slash gone cruising and been successful? i know for gay guys it's a pretty common thing and there are specific places to cruise. i'm especially curious to hear if any of you women have done it

i've been so horny and pornbrained that even when i make eye contact with some random person in public i start fantasizing about them

i'm a bi chick and i wish i could "cruise", but the men in my country are so reserved and cold, they're not really flirty in any sort of way when sober. it makes me super nervous and throws me off. when it comes to women i just couldn't, i'll feel like a total creep