26 [M4F] #KCMO/US/Online - Hopeless romantic looking for my next long-term obsession (respectfully)

M4F

Hello there!

I’ve been single for long enough, and now I really want to start putting myself back out there. Right now, my life is actually pretty great. I’m a college-educated professional in STEM, have a couple of groups of pretty great friends, and too many hobbies to know what to do with. But, I don’t have anyone to share my life with. Someone to tell everything to, to stay up until 5am talking about the meaning of life with. Someone to do cute couple things with, like getting lost in a new city or stargazing at night. Someone to give all of my attention to. Local or long-distance is fine, short or long term - really just looking for that flirty spark. If we get serious eventually I’ll want to meet up, but that’s so far down the road. I’m based in Kansas City for work but travel often, so plenty of opportunities to be had.

Here’s a little more about how me - my resume if you will:

  • Physically, I’m 5’11, a broad-shouldered and dad-bod build, brown hair and blue-green eyes. I hit the gym more days than I don’t, and try to keep active.
  • My spirit animal is a middle aged father of two (golden retriever energy and dad jokes galore).
  • Music is quite literally my life (playing and listening) - I’m still very much an emo kid at heart!
  • My biggest hobby is collecting hobbies, from the normal to the bizarre - some hits include trumpet-playing, karate, board games, and building robots!
  • I’m a nerd in just about every sense of the word (but I’m a cool one, don’t worry).
  • I’m a self-identified hopeless romantic, fiercely loyal, and 100% straight cheese. Like I give Hallmark a run for their money.
  • I love to learn, so I will absolutely sit and listen to you rant about your passions. And I’ve got plenty to rant about in return!
  • In a relationship, I value trust, communication, and loyalty - and I’m willing to relocate and/or travel for the right person.

There’s plenty more to me too, but I’ve gotta leave something for our conversations. Tell me about your day, what’s been on your mind, a little about yourself, or even ask me questions or try to convince me that pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza (but it totally does, you animals). Let’s see where the conversation takes us. Between juggling my career, sleep, and not getting enough sleep, I’ve got plenty of other hobbies and interests so I’m sure we can find something to talk about! Voice chats are a major plus, and a great way to really get to know each other.

I’ll be happy to exchange photos in private. I’ve got a couple other platforms too, if you’d rather talk on there. And if you’ve reached out before, please feel free to reach out again!

Hope to talk to you soon!

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 11:12 PM UTC · locked

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