Being told I’m not doing enough by my dad.

I work as a freelance photographer mainly while working factory gigs and pubs on the side. Recently I’ve had a big freelance project on and I’ve done photos for his golf club through my weekend. I’ve spent all of my day editing for my work and photos for the golf club and taking every free moment of the day to look after my Antie with cancer. I did promise my mum I’d do a deep clean on the kitchen today but I’ve been absolutely run off my ass. I just think it’s not fair to say I’m being lazy when I’m balancing actual photography work plus working for his golf club for nothing compared to what I’d normally charge and helping my Antie not to mention I volunteer at a charity shop. I pay £50 rent to them and I really appreciate that it’s so cheap. But he’s saying this as I joined my friends for the pub quiz tonight I just think after a day of work and talking care of a relative that when my Antie goes to bed I deserve to have a drink with friends.