31 [M4F] looking for a Domme in #Texas or the #south or #online eventually turning into #IRL

NSFWM4F

Like the title says I'm fine with things starting out online but I would eventually like them to become an IRL thing someday. I'm making the choice to not list out all my kinks here but suffice it to say a cursory glance through my profile will make them pretty clear as well as the fact that I'm a switch. If you're not a switch, I'm fine with that. I should also mention that I have a sub myself that I express my own dominant desires with and I do not intend to abandon them for anyone else so if that's not something you're okay with I totally understand and wish you the best of luck.

With that out of the way, I am looking for something that's closer to a relationship than not. I'm not against it being a strictly physical thing but I do still want to at least be friendly with each other outside of the bedroom or the dynamic. I am pretty intense and into a lot of things and there's nothing I wouldn't try at least twice to make sure I didn't like it so long as it's legal and doesn't involve scat, bleeding, permanent injury, raceplay, permanent denial, permanent chastity, public displays of kink around non-consenting people, and I'm able to use a safeword or signal at any time at my discretion (though I will try as hard as possible not to unless absolutely necessary).

As for a physical description I am a big guy (4 u). I'm about six and a half feet tall and about 310lbs, played football for a long time. Definitely a dadbod. My eyes are green and my head is bald and my beard is blonde. I enjoy gaming and a lot of different kinds of media as well as a couple different podcasts in addition to shitposting and effortposting on reddit about a bunch of different subjects. I do have a son and he is the light of my life and I make an effort to spend as much time with him as possible. I'm also a fan of fishing and occasionally go hunting.

As to my preference for southern women, I've lived in Texas all my life. My current job has me driving all over the south pretty regularly. If I had my druthers things would start online and progress from there. I'd like to find someone that was within about six or seven years of my current age but I'd make an exception to that for the right person. I do love texting but given the nature of my job it's easier to spend time on a call, and as far as methods of contact go I prefer telegram or discord but am not opposed to a conversation here on reddit to start things off.

I look forward to hearing from you, and if you've read this far thank you whether you're interested or not. I prefer talking to people for a bit before talking about kinks or sex but if you're curious you can check out my comments. I'm not against sending photos of myself but I don't want them posted publicly with my face visible whether they're sfw or especially if they're not - I have no social media either, or at least not anything that leads back to who I am.

Oh - I also don't mind if you're tall or short. I'm fine with either. Figured I'd throw that in there. I usually respond pretty quickly, and I prefer chat messages to comments but am not opposed to them.

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 11:17 PM UTC

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