My girlfriend found out she was pregnant and is angry I went to play golf

My (20) gf (21) slept over at my house the night prior and we’d been worried she was pregnant because her period was about 3/4 days late. I told her the night prior that I was going on a hike the next day and in the morning we left together but I was late for the train so she told me to run ahead. As I was waiting for the train she text me and says I’m actually going to go take a pregnancy test in the gym and i said okay let me know how it goes. She does the test and reports back to me that she’s pregnant. By this point I’d already missed the train and was in the same city as her not far at all. I planned on getting the next bus instead, I asked if she’s okay she said yes but it’s annoying and she’s a bit sad. I said I’m sorry let me know if you need anything. She says she’s fine. So I go on the bus and travel 2 hours she then text me saying she’s actually going to go to the clinic today to see options on abortion. I reply okay let me know how things go when will you be there etc. she says she’ll be there about 2 hours from now but I should still go on my hike. So another hour and some time passes and i reach the start of the hike me and my few friends. I then read her message and she says, if I want you to come and meet me later you’re going to and I reply the hike is gonna take 4 hours I can see you when I get back and she says that that’s fine. So on the hike I’m communicating with her making sure she’s okay, she’s met up with her bsf and she’s expressed no issues asides annoyance regarding the fact she’s pregnant. My friends and I decide to cut the hike short and get a taxi and short bus to play a bit of golf instead, I relay this information to my girlfriend and she immediately says you’re not going to golf come and see me now by this point she’s just at a park about 40 minutes away. I expressed that I’d already payed for golf and asked why she couldn’t meet me at the originally planned time around 2 hours from then. She begins to curse me out heavily over text, saying the most horrible things to me, the worse things she’s ever said to me and she’d agree on that part. Reading this I simply replied that I’ll meet her at the originally planned time and I’m not sure who’s she’s talking to like that and I put my phone away. She then called my friends and I told them to ignore her and I replied to her messages where she was cursing me out even more for not going to see her immediately. So eventually I meet her and the friend at the originally planned time and she’s angry that I didn’t immediately come and went to golf, I still gave her support and allowed her sleep over with me despite everything she’d said to me. Am i the asshole for not immediately going to her? I’m unsure because I’d told her not to take a test for another 2 days which she agreed to and she’d expressed that she was fine all day up until I’d told her I was playing golf and even upon my consideration of leaving golf she said the most horrible things a person had possibly ever said to me which impacted my decision to stay, things that I’m still debating whether I should break up over.

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 11:18 PM UTC

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