How do you guys have an everyday eq? (Bose QC Ultra)

I'm having trouble finding the right eq for daily use.

I just tried to eq my main favorite music style (digital/ hyperpop rap), with about 7-8 songs

The problem is, I almost NEVER end up with a similar eq, even tho it's the same type of music.

It goes from +8 -4 -4 To +4 +8 +8 sometimes. How did you guys end up with an everyday eq ? Did y'all did and average of 10 songs or something?