How would you feel if your partners parents followed your social media even though it’s not family oriented content?

Seeking Advice

I’m in a wonderful relationship with my partner and i’ve met his entire family basically. I’m practically at their house almost every weekend and with his parents and nephews. I got back on IG recently and at the time I only followed my mans (he rarely posts, just on his story sometimes).

Now i’m more gothic than anything and his parents are pretty religious but accepting. I don’t have my name in my bio or anything but the entire account is essentially just selfies/outfit pix in the style I wear which includes a lot of pentagrams and stuff. I’m also heavily tatted and have my septum and ears stretched but i’ve gradually stopped wearing my septum due to work, school, and my internship.

His dad found my account last night and I just saw his mom followed me today and ofc I followed back but now i’m overthinking like I need to watch what I post, I need to post more family stuff, etc. idk lol. I don’t rlly have any posts of my family since none of us are close like that (long story) but yeah maybe im just overthinking. I am a grown ass woman (i’m 24 and he’s 27) so realistically it’s like yeah….duh.

I found his sisters IG account and it’s essentially a bunch of thirst traps and stuff since she’s a gym rat and super pretty so in a sense it made me feel a little more lax about what I post yanno?

Posted Jul 9, 2025, 11:25 PM UTC

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