😵‍💫😵‍💫 end of wlw relationship

(so sorry this is long) my first long term gf and I have been in a tough tough spot for the last few months. she lost her job in October and other than a two week stint of employment she has been unemployed since. I am fortunate to have a secure well paying job and familial support but I am feeling so over it. It’s not so much of a finance thing but more of a drive and motivation thing. I had to ask her for a while to get into therapy, get on medicare to keep up with her health, encouraged her to go back to school. but I just feel tired of asking. long story short my patience has been running thin for months now. on top of all of this she has an obsession with my past (sleeping with both men and women) that I think is exacerbated by the insecurity that comes with being unemployed/not mentally in a good spot.

we ended things about two weeks ago and talked about maintaining a friendship but it’s still the same old shit.

did we make the right choice to call it? how do u be friends and not fall back into old patterns or keep discussing the why’s of why it didn’t work?

brotherrrrrrrrr.