18 [F4M] #SanJose - First time

Im 18F 5’0 110 lbs. In San Jose California. I’m looking for an older experienced guy for my first time. Just want vanilla and gentle. If you’re married it’s ok. I can’t host so it could be at your place or a hotel. And I would like to go on a date before to get comfortable if it’s ok. Please take care of me thank you