Just after some advice

Hey Hey you beautiful people. I'm just chasing some advice. I'm coming to terms with being trans but of course being in my thirties I'm after some advice about opening up to people about becoming who I really want to be. I don't really have any support on the trans side but I am married and I want to tell my wife first. If you could offer some tips it'd be much appreciated. Thank you and have a wonderful day. You lovely people