24 [F4M] #Online Submissive seeking mentally dominant, experienced Dom – LDR Friendly

Hello there, friend.

My name is Abi.

I’ve always been drawn to discipline, structure, and guidance—things that made me feel secure growing up in a very strict household. That need for structure eventually led me, out of curiosity, to discover the world of BDSM. At first, I never thought I’d actually become a submissive—it felt too far out of reach. But over time, that changed.

Right before I turned 18, I met my first Dom. It was a 24/7 in-person dynamic that introduced me to the local kink community. I attended SFW events, met like-minded people, and started learning through real-life experience.

Since then, I’ve had two formal Doms. A few other dynamics began to form but didn’t progress—mostly due to my hectic schedule. I’ve taken a break from the scene recently, and while I feel a bit out of touch, I’m ready to return and reconnect with this part of myself.

My turn-ons include spanking, hypnosis, rough sex, edging, high protocol, rope, and diet control. Of course, all explored in safe, sane, and consensual ways. I enjoy adapting to the needs and style of the person I serve—submission, to me, is about growing into someone’s expectations with intention.

Right now, I’m looking for someone who is kind, experienced, and patient. Ideally, you’re older than me, and familiar with long-distance dynamics. I’m seeking not just a Dom, but a teacher—someone who listens as much as they lead.

If you’ve read this far, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me your favorite drink in your message—it’s a small but meaningful start. A selfie would be appreciated, too.