Need your help buddies! Relationship Situation.
Imagine you know a girl from your school. You both are 14-15 of age, when you first saw her. You both were and still shy personalities. The one who likes to live alone or with only one friend who is his bestfriend.
The girl didn't knew that you always adored her, how much you liked her, how beautiful she is to you.
You both cross 17 of age, and after leaving school you both choose different colleges.
You both didn't talked even once, until you turn 23 of age. You are doing job nowadays and shes in her final year of Management degree.
You both get connected on instagram during this time. And now you both are talking like best buddies, you both enjoy chatting and texting everyday, talking on random topics and all.
One day, she suddenly tells you 'Do you know something?'. You say no. She say 'I had a boyfriend in college'.
She opens up about this more. It The time when she was 20-21 age. Her relationship went for 1 and a half year. She was serious but she didn't knew that the other guy is in relationship just for fun. A day came when she proposed her and the guy said - 'we are not child anymore, i don't want this marriage and all'. He said it directly. That broke her heart.
This is the reason she is suffering from anxiety, depression, epilepsy, etc.
You pamper her. And you pamper everytime she says anything wrong. Like she says, a girl with these kind of disease gets left out by everyone. You neglect this and say no that's not true.
She is liking your thinking. She actually know you the time you were 14 of age.
A twist of fate - You and her boyfriend share the same name.
One day she says, 'what a god's plan? I wanted one (random name) and god gave me two.' 'One who was bad and one who is cute'.
The feeling inside you is increasing day by day. A feeling to tell her that how much you loved her. You prepare yourself to propose her.
(Keep in mind you still haven't physically met. Its all going on in chat)
You prepare yourself. But on some day, in a random conversation. You get a text from her, like this. 'STILL I LIKE HIM!'
No, you're not broken hearing this. You're not that broken mindset of a guy. But still, you think, why to love someone who don't respect you. Why she is liking that even if he said this kind of things?
I need help. I need to know where you (or maybe me) are going wrong? Also do you think, even if you proposed her and she accepts... Will the relationship work?
Posted Jul 17, 2025, 8:26 AM UTC