not knowing what to do

i (24F) recently got married and moved to the uk, i graduated with a degree in medical labs about two years ago, and ever since I havent worked on anything to further my career, i tried training in a local lab back in my home country but I just didnt feel connected to the job at all and quit after two weeks. i got busy with my wedding for a while and it seemed like the only thing that was keeping me going and i had something important going on in my life, now im at home doing nothing, i just clean and cook sometimes. im on my phone all the time. but im constantly searching for things to do like my brain cant just focus on one thing I just have no clue where to start. im simultaneously thinking of starting an etsy business, learning a language, looking for a random 9-5 job to have something to do, enrolling in a course, or working towards a career in my field. or just getting pregnant and becoming a mother. im incredibly torn between everything that I find myself doing absolutely nothing. everyday is the same routine of flipping through websites and then just going on tiktok, me and my husband yesterday were just chatting randomly and he called me unmotivated, like I dont have a drive to do anything or have any path in life. he tried to assure me that he didnt want me to feel pressured to get a job as hes working hard for the both of us, but it just hit me hard because he was right and its been bugging me ever since before my wedding that I wanted to do something but I just didnt know what to do or where to start and I feel very lazy. I have a million ideas in my brain but I cant start on a single one, im beginning to think I might have adhd or something I need help because im really starting to lose motivation.

Posted Jul 17, 2025, 8:28 AM UTC

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