Farang Home Loan with Thai Wife

I am American and married to a Thai woman and we are currently in the process of building a home. We have a US and Thai marriage certificate. I am a Veteran that has a monthly stipend which is deposited into my wife’s account. I also have a Thai job working for an international school on a 3 year contract. My wife is a Tour Guide so she’s freelance. I don’t care if the home is in my name or not. Wouldn’t counting my income benefit the bank more because they will give us more money? Seems like a bad business plan if you ask me.

Does anyone have any experience with any particular banks counting my income on the home loan as well? Do you have any suggestions on “how to” get it to count? What is your experience? Any help is greatly appreciated!