My mom's take on shalu appi

So my mom has been a huge fan of ibrahim's, but post baby gutku 's arrival she has been a little critical of shalu appi, first she says that saba doesn't have motherly instincts as shalu appi still has bachpana in her, second she is really worried as to how they handle the baby- according to her taking a one month old out so often is bad for the baby, newborns are extremely sensitive and car rides, the pollution and since it's monsoon the air is extremely harsh and cold-this greatly affects the baby (the reason why baby gutku's nose is always blocked), third -the hygiene in the household, my mom had just noticed how they don't shower often and don't even change clothes post coming back from their ghumna phirna, touching the baby right after coming back from all their shenanigans without properly sanitising or changing clothes is just exposing babies to more germs and viruses, lastly she blames Suitara ammi as suitara ammi doesn't have motherly instincts herself that's why she couldn't teach shalu appi anything and has no control over her, as per my mom shalu appi is a new mother and needs to be taught how to take care of the baby but since jagat ammi herself has no idea she hasn't taught shalu appi anything either.