How to use DP and Make my narc mom stop abusing me?

Well for some context, she's very controlling even in very trivial matters, A to Z i should listen to what she says, if not she goes feral and shouts screams and all that..

So what can I do to make her for the lack of better word, shut the F up? To make her leave me alone? I'm not looking to make her love me or anything, it's a big boon if she just let's me be.