Partner won’t leave our bedroom because OF my brother

NSFWMeltdowns

My girlfriend has ADHD and Autism. She has psoriasis and doesn’t wear a bra at home most of the time.

My younger brother is staying with us for 2 months while job hunting. Today, he came downstairs without warning while she wasn’t wearing a bra. She freaked out.

Now she says:

  • She’s not leaving the bedroom unless I’m with her
  • She’ll only use the kitchen if I’m next to her
  • She’s either moving out or staying in the room until she leaves the country
  • She’s done talking about it
  • The house doesn’t feel like hers anymore

I already told my brother to give a heads-up before going downstairs. He wasn’t trying to be disrespectful, but that doesn’t matter to her.

She says she’s tired of repeating herself, feels like her privacy was violated, and that I haven’t protected her space.

She’s shut down completely. I’m stuck between her and my brother. What the fuck am I supposed to do here?

Posted Jul 17, 2025, 8:42 AM UTC

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