Gentlemen fron your experience, what are good solutions get me out of this jaded place?

I wanted to make this post to the gents of the group asking for help. I would like to get back on the market but I have been struggling with my past. Anytime I have tried to get serious with a woman I've been sleeping with there's always something about me that makes me an unlikely partner but good for sex. The last few women I've liked were more interested in sex and fun versus growing together and it has shot my confidence. I'm open-minded and open to feedback for growth so issues a previous bedroom partner expressed don't go on deaf ears. I am family oriented, have three degrees, have lived across the US and now in Europe, worked with AAA brands since the beginning of my career, just signed to GFL Division 1 and have a caring heart and provider mentality. I feel like a catch and would love to find a wife before I'm 30. What can I do to stop being jaded and get back in the game?