ISO lesbian sex parties/queer spaces in nyc

I’ve (AFAB25) been in a heteronormative open relationship for 2y and a few months ago I told my partner (AMAB27) that I’m beginning to think I’m more lesbian than I realized. As I get older and the more healing I do in therapy, I’m more and more attracted to women.

I’ve been with 3(?) women in the past 4 years and have seen a few romantically, but haven’t been with a woman in over a year. I feel fucking feral at this point, and with my schedule it feels so hard to build a connection with someone and work my way up to the point of having sex.

I’m on Feeld and it kinda sucks, but I really should go to more queer spaces in the city. If anyone knows of any, let me know—I’m in Brooklyn. I’ve heard of some lesbian sex parties in the area, but don’t know anyone that goes to them; I’m really interested in going to one though.