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Prinlot22

He became obsessed with me after finding out I am a virgin

TW: Anxiety / Depression

You are only only fascinated and obsessed because I am the first person to tell you no and your ego can’t take it. Please stop following me around. You have a line of people who want you.

You only view me as the woman you want to marry and be the mother of your children because you claim I’m “pure.” You love being in competition and want to be first. It’s creepy and I am afraid.

I do not belong to you. I belong to me. You are possessive of me when I’m not even your girlfriend. When I wore that one dress you said I love men’s attention. Yet I prefer the company of women over men. You are manipulative and hope you get the help you need.

Stop calling me from different numbers. I am afraid I don’t know what to do. The anxiety I feel right now is the worst. Valium every day now. I look over my shoulder everytime im at the store.

You showed up to my friends place asking for me and had to scan the room because you thought they were lying about me not being there. I can’t fix you or save you. I just want peace

I want to be able to sleep peaceful at night again. I want to be around my girls not you. But I am worried now because I’m dealing with a deeply disturbed individual who is obsessed with me. I feel it’s my fault for agreeing to the first date even after people Told me to stay away from him. I created this and I wish I didn’t. I just want to be safe now. Please be careful of who you date. Don’t ignore the red flags.

Posted Jul 19, 2025, 7:40 PM UTC

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