28 [M4F] #Germany #Online - Wholesome dom looking for my good girl

Many years I have been a part of the BDSM community. Exploring my kinks as a dominant man both online and IRL. And I came to realize that what I want is a bit unorthodox in this community. I love to dominate, to control, to tease. But I do not like the harsh and abusive tone many here seem to enjoy. I do not wish to be a slavemaster, but more like a wholesome boyfriend to you. And I don't want you to just be a passive sub who let's me do stuff to her, but an active and enthusiastic partner in a dynamic we can both enjoy with great passion. Were we both treat eachother like human beings, not mere kink dispensers. Develop great respect for eachother as we don't just engage in sexual play but form a real bond of friendship and companionship and perhaps more than that. Experience true intimacy and trust, allowing us to fully relax and let go, forget all troubles of everday life as we find comfort and ecstasy in eachother.

I hope that description was a sufficent explanation of what I desire. What I am looking for is mainly an online frienship, as I don't expect to find anyone who lives nearby. But I am very much open to IRL romance too, if we happen to be compatible. Either way I want something long term, real and intimate.

To give you a quick introduction, I am a 28 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

If all of that sounds interesting to you, feel free to message me through chat. To make sure you read this post, please include the code word Balatro in your message. And please give me at least a basic introduction. Effort and enthusiasm are a big green flag in my eyes.