Every matter has an ending and a transition period

If every matter has an ending and a transition period, why is it so difficult for people to allow themselves grace and forgiveness through trials and failures? If my goal is to make life seem worthwhile and peaceful enough for others to invest in their future, what am I to do with a community who has seemingly given up and succumbed to acts of despair and debauchery?

Alas, one thing I know for sure is if there is even one difference between the truth, what was once true and what could be true, I will forever wish for a garden, with enough labour and fruits to share.