I male 19 and my friend female 18 have been friends for 4 year and have been through a lot together. I tell her everything about my life recently I told her about my first hook up because I was scared and wanted to be safe after the hook up was done I told her about it and how I was drunk and uncomfortable during the whole experience and scared about catching a std. 

flash forward few weeks and we are chatting about a boy that hitting her up and she tells me he is ugly I disagree with her and we came to common ground that he is average. Just some friend banter. That when I brought the fact the new guys she talking to is ugly to add a little context he treats her like shit and called her a bitch. And he don’t really pay attention to her he even brought his friend to their first date. 

I have told her he seems toxic and she should leave him alone but she didn’t listen he only very horny and sexaul with her even though they been talk for 4 weeks maxs. The reason I told her to leave this guy alone is because all her previous exs acted just like him they would cheat lie and be drepreful to her and I help her thought it all and get a therapist. 

For the tramua one of the boys but through I didn’t want to see with other guy like this. So I brought up the fact that the new guy is ugly and everything just joking around like we normally do when she brought up the guy I hookup with for a second time so I blocked her. I let her past the first time but why would she bring up something I only told her and cried about tell her. 

Maybe it’s my fault since I bring up her exs she has told me not to bring up that why I didn’t really take any action when she mention the hook-up the first time I thought I was in the wrong but now that she done it a second time idk. We grew up together so we act like sibling and all her exs were high school memories. For years idk

What do you guys think ?

Oh we joke around with name calling just fyi 

And I already told I don’t like how new guys acts and treats her in other text. They been on one date and met on Snapchat. So that why I talk about him. And she knows how I hate how ex treat her. But if need anymore information just asks.



Am I overreacting for blocking my friend ?