Is it „cheating“ to get readings?

So, I have gotten some readings in the past months and they have helped me so much in terms of work, spirituality and life in general, even some psychological aspects that not even in therapy I was aware or able to work on. I have been able to look at things differently overall and I feel life has more sense to me after them.

But, I was wondering, is getting readings like “cheating”? I remember a comment saying that we are not supposed to have readings. But for me, it has been so helpful and reassuring in a lot of areas of my life. So, I’m not sure if getting readings will make me get “punished” later in life. So, is this a thing? How do you feel about it?