People with little compassion or empathy have little value as friends

I'm not saying ignore or be mean them. But I mean certain cluster Types. They are not friends. They will never understand the burden complexity of cPTSD. At worst they will abuse you or be oblivious to your grief. That is NOT normal. Of course they create nice simulations of relationships but they can't meet us there. You will be endlessly invalidating yourself to fit their little view of the world