46 [M4F] #Chicago - really great side dish for a few years?

So we aren’t going to live happily ever after. But maybe that’s okay for both of us?

About me

I’m an executive. Work is crazy busy. And I am attached and have a couple of kids and I don’t want to change my situation. I’m reasonably good looking. 6ft 0in 195 lb Caucasian with brown hair blue eyes. I’m almost wearing a custom tailored suit and crazy socks.

For some reason I’m noticing I am starting to get cat calls periodically - from men and women - I actually think I am pretty better looking now than I was 10 years ago, since I’m in better shape. I do work out regularly and run, goal is to run at least one half marathon per year. And I’m learning squash.

I’m looking for one discreet from time to time playmate and texting partner. Maybe we would go on trips sometimes, potentially around the world, and eat some interesting food at Michelin restaurants. I like travel, wine, coffee, interesting dining, skiing and sex — I’ll leave the order of preference to your imagination.

I think we’d make some memories for 2-3 years and then you’ll want to move on, find Mr. Right and start a family. But maybe this would be fun until then?

About you

You’re 25-30ish. You’re also Caucasian and you’re thin or fit and attractive. I’m partial but toward blue eyes and blonde to brunette hair. Girl next door kind of look. I’m also not into tattoos.

I’m sure there are lots of ladies who are wonderful who don’t fit these parameters but that’s just what I find to be attractive.

Bonus points if you are French, even though I happen to be American. You could also be American, Canadian, Irish, British, Australian, etc. I’m not really that picky on where you’re from originally. In any case, you live in Chicago now or at least travel there regularly.

You’re into the things I’m into, at least some of them. Intimacy is important to me — I want to feel desired. And I want sex to be a creative expression that is interesting. And I am looking for a win-win — not someone who is with me to be compensated, out of obligation or some kind of feeling some kind of sympathy for my needs.

Maybe you have a professional job or you’re on grad school and don’t want a real relationship yet. Maybe you want something thrilling for a season. Maybe you don’t want someone on your life but not all the time.

What now?

If this is interesting to you, send me a quick note about why and include some kind of photo. Doesn’t have to be anything scandalous. Please don’t reply if you’re trying to sell me anything, especially including OF.