He was physical during the date but immediately blocked me after it was over
Today I went on a first date with a guy I met on hinge. We matched earlier in the week and the conversation was light and flowed. He complimented my appearance a lot too however yesterday some yellow flags started to appear. I'm black and he's white. First he mentioned how his celebrity crush is Sofia Vergara but that in real life he tends to attract black women and red heads, and that he's like a moth to a flame with them. Then height came up. I'm 6ft tall, and I make that very clear on my profile. He says he's 5'10 and doesn't mind because he loves tall women. He kept asking about my foot size which I found kinda odd and kept remarking at how proporitate my body is.
Anyways, today we meet for our first date and the second I saw him he seemed kind of intoxicated or socially off. I thought he wasn't interested but he kept extending the date. He also kept compliment my jewellery, clothes, and purse, and body. He was very physically touchy. He kept caressing my back, standing behind me, massaging my shoulders, kissing my shoulder, holding my hand which is a lot for a first date. I didn't really react much to this, just found it weird.
The date ended and he kissed me on the cheek goodbye after saying he felt ill. About 10 mins later I find he blocks my number and deleted me on hinge.. do you think he just wanted something physical? Also he kept comparing my hand and shoe size to his
Posted Jul 19, 2025, 7:54 PM UTC