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MindfulCrazyness

29 [M4F] #Online #US #Canada #UK #Anywhere - Where is my Voluptuous Submissive Gamer Mommy hiding? Your Soft Dom Gamer Son has been seeking you! LD LTR Dynamic Single Moms Also Welcomed Ages 20 - 50

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Hello there(Insert Obi Wan GIF here haha)! Thank you for checking out my Ad! Strap in, it's gonna be a crazy little ride! πŸ˜…

#Firstly, I'm not here to be a side show pony, I'm here for a committed relationship.

#About Myself..

  • Physically: I'm a 5'8'' African American with Short Black Hair and a Beard, and Dark Brown Eyes. I have a Average Build with some Muscle Definition, and a little bit of gut. "Dad bod". 🀣

  • Personality: I'm a chill, laid-back, respectful, jokey, loyal, sweet, and non-judgmental type of cat. I'm open, honest, emotionally intelligent, and I don't have a jealous bone in my body.

  • Location: I'm currently living in the Mid-south(US). CST, but I'm pretty flexible with time-frames. Btw, I am typically a Night Owl.

  • Nerdy Gamer: I'm a proud Nerd and Gamer that plays Fortnite, COD, OW2, Valorant, Phasmophobia, Fall Guys, Marvel Rivals, Palworld, and Minecraft currently.

  • Film & Series Enthusiast: Action, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, and Horror are all my jam!

  • Other Hobbies: Working out, Listening to Music, Writing, and Monologuing to myself like a super villian sometimes! πŸ˜…

  • No Vices: I don't Drink, Smoke, or do any Drugs.

  • Childless(I want Kiddos eventually): "Luke, I'm not your Father!". As you can see, I have no shame, okay? 🀣

  • Monogamous: One Partner is enough for me! Respect to the ENM folks out there, tho.

  • Unemployed currently: Don't worry, I'm not out here looking for handouts or anything like that. That's not who I am. I'm just looking to build towards a relationship.

  • Soft Dom: I consider myself a Soft Dom with a splash of roughness thrown in. Also! I am all about Safewords, and I'm a giver of Aftercare. ☺️

  • Sexuality: I'm Hetero/Demisexual. Building a connection first before jumping into a Dynamic is important to me. I will say that I generally have a High Libido. I'm not at all ruled by it, tho.

  • Virgin: Clearly I'm not an innocent one hehe. I'm a well educated and sex positive Virgin. I'm very familiar with a Woman's body. Yes, I know where the Clit and G-Spot are. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Ž

  • My Views on Porn: I watch/listen to Porn(Not 24/7). I'm no addict. I have a healthy relationship with Porn. I don't have "Porn-brain". I view the performers as actual human beings, and not as sexual objects. I know it's all just fantasy. I believe Porn is a safe space to explore our desires free from the judgement of others.

#The Submissive Mommy/Partner I'm Looking For..

  • A Gamer: That is from Ages 20 - 50 who either plays(at least one of) the same Games that I play, or is willing to play some of the same Games that I play. Let's chat and play Video Games together, and make all kinds of fun memories together!

  • A Consistent Communicator: Texting is cool, however I want more than just that. Various forms of vocal communication regularly, and video calls as well. (Clarification, this doesn't mean I need us to be communicating every second of the day. Just regularly). I've sadly dealt with wayyy too many inconsistent communicators.

  • A Caller & Voice Message Sender: Voice Messages and Calls are VERY important to me. I love sending and receiving VMs! I love Calls! I've unfortunately been burned too many times by a lack of VMs and Calls in the past.

  • Open, Honest, and Emotionally intelligent: I want a Partnter that keeps the lines of open and honest communication open regularly just as I do, and is emotionally intelligent.

  • Nurturing: I want a Nurturing Partner because I'm Nurturing person myself and I would want the same in return. I feel like we'd really be each other's rock. ☺️

  • Busty Voluptuous: I love Buxom and Full-Figured women. I love all the beautiful jiggly curves! Every single curve is beautiful to me. I'm mostly a "Boob Guy". I'm also a "Butt Guy" hehe. I'm not bothered by a tummy, btw. 😊

  • Breast Size: Either Big or Huge Breasts. I love both Perky and Saggy Breasts! Fun fact! Saggy Breasts have never fazed me because I know how gravity works! πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

  • Not a Bigot: There is no need to be Racist/Homophobic.

  • Employment Status: Whether you're currently employed or not, feel free to reach out to me. I don't feel threatened by a Woman with a j-o-b, and I'm not going to judge you if you're unemployed currently like I am. πŸ™‚

  • Single, Monogamous, & with or without kiddos: Either a Single Mom who is Monogamous and wants more Kiddos eventually, or a Single Monogamous and a Childless(Wants Kiddos eventually) Partner such as myself.

  • Unproblematic: Whether you're a Single Mom or you're Childless, the more Unproblematic, the better.

  • Completely Open and Honest: Single Mom or Childless, I expect complete openness and honesty, and I expect a willingness to answer any questions I have. I'll do the same. πŸ™‚

  • Single Mom Time Management: I completely understand that your kiddos are your top priority. All that I ask is that you make time for us to Game and/or Chat regularly. I don't expect it to be 24/7. I'm not trying to take time away from your kiddos.

  • Open to a LD LTR: It'll be a Long Distance Long Term Relationship for awhile, but eventually it would become a IRL LTR.

  • No Cigarette Smokers: I just can't handle the overwhelming Cigarette Smoke cloud. I'd faint, and that wouldn't look cool at all. πŸ˜‚

  • Vices I'm Cool With: Drinking responsibly, Weed, and Vapes.

  • Night Owl: Since I've always been a Night Owl, I feel like if my Partner was a Night Owl as well would be amazing!

  • High Libido: Since I have a High Libido, I believe I would feel most connected with a Partnter who also has a High Libido. I feel like we would just really understand each other, ya know?

  • Open to starting a family in the future: Definitely not an immediate thing. It would be the goal at some point in the future.

  • Submissive Experience Level: I'm open to all levels of Submissive experience.

  • Sexual Experience Level: Whether you're a Virgin like me, or you've had Partners before me, feel free to reach out to me. All I ask is that you are sex positive, and you are a practitioner of safe-sex.

  • Porn-Enthusiast/Porn-Curious: I want a Partnter who is either a Porn-Enthusiast like me, or at the very least is Porn-Curious. I'd love to watch Porn with my Partner, and share Porn with my Partner. I believe Porn in a relationship can still be healthy. It's all about consistent open and honest communication.

#Our 24/7 D/s Dynamic: Dominant Son/submissive Mommy Taboo RP..

  • Sub Mommy Types: I'm open to all different types. Whether that be a Pet Mommy, a Service Mommy, a Brat Mommy, a Slave Mommy, etc.

  • My Dom Honorifics: Sweetie, Baby, Honey, Hun, Son. I'm not expecting you to refer to me as any of my Honorifics in your first message. I do expect you to respect my Honorifics and not invalidate my Honorifics. My Honorifics are non-negotiable.

#Some of my Kinks and Hard Limits..

  • Kinks: Taboo RP, D/s, RP, Dirty Talk, Begging, Drool, Breast Play, Breastfeeding, Lactation, Breeding, Hucow, HJ, BJ, Deep Throat, Face Fucking, Titfucking, Fingering, Cunnilingus, Free-use, Toys, Praise, Degradation, Spanking, Rough Sex, Gag, Cuffs, Food Play, Sexting, Phone Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Orgasm Control, Outfit Control, Anal, Butt Plugs, 24/7, and more!

  • Hard Limits: Needles, Cutting, Most Blood(I'm not opposed to Period Blood, tho), Scat, Vomit, Race Play, Anything Illegal, Bad Hygiene, Diaper Play, Food Control, Feederism, Receiving Anal/Impact/Scratches/Bites.

#In Case You Were Wondering If I would be opposed to these things, I'm not..

  • I ain't afraid of no: Tall Women, Short Women, Same Height as me Women, Tattooed Women, Women with Piercings, Goth Women, Women with Stretch Marks/Cellulite, Women with Body/Facial Hair, or Non-Binaries(AFAB). Lol, but seriously tho you're all welcomed to message me. ☺️

#If You're Interested..

Send me a chat with details about yourself(Age, Location, Body Type, Breast Size, If you have kiddos or not, Games you play, Libido Level, Views on Porn, Your Kinks & Hard Limits) and tell me your favorite kind of weather 🌧🌀 to make sure you've read everything here.

If you have any questions regarding my Dating Ad, feel free to ask, and I'll answer them to the best of my ability.

Posted Jul 19, 2025, 7:54 PM UTC Β· locked

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