Tops: Do you like having a bottom or Top be a Stroke Bud/Jerk Off Bud?

Hey y’all, long time lurker <3

I wanted to see people’s thoughts on this, like if it mattered or changed the experience for people?

I have thought on it from the perspective of a bottom and would love to know I could help my bud out and maximize their experience. ;3

Fun bonus question for anyone who reads down here: Do y’all think it would be odd to have a fellow JO Bud who was in chastity and wanted to “stroke” by plapping their clitty or using a dildo? Or is that interesting/fun if everyone’s vibing? :)