39 [M4F] Happy but board

Not new to having an AP but new to the online thing.

I work white collar upper management, fun but stressful job, family life is good, generally happy with my life and marriage, not looking to change anyone's situation.

However that spark is missing, we have moved to a room mates with benefits situation. Its all very mechanical and transactory. I am craving that spark again, that burning passion, deep late night phone calls, flirty texts throughout the day, a shared secret to spice up life.

About me: Average height and build leaning towards the skinny side, I love to travel, reading, and hanging out by the water, games and trying out new resteraunts.

About you: Understand the importance of discretion. I dont really have a type as the emotional connection is really what im looking for. Please just be able to hold a conversation and if we don't vibe just tell me. Im a big boy in the most important way (emotionally), it won't hurt my feelings!