I think my guardian is abusive

So there are a lot of examples of her being just straight up and asshole but here's one

So today I took a shower it was really nice n stuff but then I got yelled at by my guardian, I don't mean lectured I mean just yelled at I mean she called me all types of swear words from rude to asshole all the way to dick just because I took a shower, as a reason she was yelling at me is because she tried taking a shower and it was cold because we have two bathrooms and she's told me a bunch of times to ask to take a shower to make sure she's not taking one but I forgot to and here's the thing if I don't shower I'm going to stink I will smell because I was sweating because you know I'm going to puberty and stuff, but I just got called a ton of insults for basically just showering, as I said there's more examples of her just being extremely rude just verbally abusing

I don't mean she's nice sometimes and like she give us food and stuff and clothes and all of that but then sometimes she will match the definition of abusive (I'm talking verbally not Physically abusive)

Sorry for bad grammar or something my hands were just shaking writing this