I’m tired

Seeking Advice

My husband 30m hardly helps around the house (we live with my mom and stepdad) and I’m tired on top of that he is unemployed right now so he’s home all day with our 3yr old child who is on summer break from school. I go to work 5 days a week sometimes 6 to make extra in the slow season just to come home to a sink full of dishes, laundry still needing to be folded, food crumbs in the bed and on the floor in the room, right now behind the toilet seat it still covered in hair from where he shaved I told him he didn’t clean it all off he said he thought he did and I told him go do it now that was almost a week ago….. it is also so gross when you lift up the seat there’s pee stains and dirt all over its so bad but I refuse to clean it. I’m done picking up and cleaning up after him…most nights dinner isn’t even done either I have to come home after working from 8am till almost 6 pm and still cook a full dinner but yet he has time to be on different TikTok lives,scroll through his socials be on long calls and stay up all hours of the night but can’t lift a finger to make things just a little easier for everyone. Someone please give me sound advice that worked for you I’ve already tried sitting him down and calmly explaining that I’m overwhelmed and need help, I’ve yelled, screamed and cried. I’ve even told him to move out but I don’t know what else to do.

Signed an exhausted wife.

TL;DR husband hardly helps with household tasks/chores need advice on how to get him to help all the time.

Posted Jul 24, 2025, 2:49 AM UTC

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