Appreciation Post

Sugar girls are the fucking best!

When I first started sugaring my marriage was on the rocks. I was miserable, and only sticking it out for my kids. My wife didn't care what I did - she had gotten over me long before any infidelity.

My first SB was a cocktail waitress (that's code for stripper for all you civvies). She was awesome. She showed me that the fun parts of my life didn't have to come to a halt. She also got me to work out more, eat better, and all sorts of other things. Most importantly, she taught me how to appreciate a relationship that wasn't going to last forever. I have tendency of getting a little intense, and she had such a great way of telling me it's fake energy. Fun energy, but fake. We ended our thing years ago, but we still keep in touch.

My current SB has brought out sides of me I never existed. She showed me a guy could have a full body orgasm. I've yet to meet another guy who can claim that. That's fucking special. Being with her has made me more empathetic, a better professional, a more present father, and surprisingly ... a better husband. I've learned to appreciate the good things about my wife (she's a great mom) and not dwell on other things. Being platonic partners focusing on the kids and ignoring 'us' has helped us all the bickering and whatnot. [By the way, we have a post-nup and she's set for life if we ever divorce; she doesn't need a reason to leave, but also stays married because it's good for the kids.]

Sugaring is always fun for the obviously reasons, but I'm so grateful for the girls that really elevate us guys, rekindle parts we thought were lost, teach us, and help us live our best lives.

These sugar girls, these top-shelf, creme de la creme girls, make us want to take care of them and spoil the shit out of them. Sugar isn't a "price to be paid" but rather an acknowledgement of how much the girl means to us - if I get to live my best life with her, she's living her best life because of me.

Anyway, there's a healthy dose of negativity on SLF most days - and deservedly so - so throwing out some positive thoughts for good karma.