i wish my boyfriend still loved me the way he used to

i love my boyfriend but we’ve been slipping. i adore him. i want him by my side forever. i never wanna see him go but things have changed so much. i’ve had so many problems with him lately and when i voice them i just feel annoying. now anytime i have a problem he just seems annoyed when i speak but what do i do when i have legitimate concerns that need to be addressed? now i’m scared to talk because i don’t want him to just see me as annoying. he used to be infatuated by me, excited to see me, now it feels like being around me drains the life from him. i hate this because the more he’s distant, the more annoying and scared i become. a bit ago i just got off a call with him that i ended because we were just silent, is like he didn’t even want to talk to me and when i said anything he seemed disinterested. he went out of state for a few days because of car troubles, and he said he’d return 2 days ago and hasn’t yet. i expected him to come back today like he said he would so i got ready and made myself pretty and planned to go out and get his favorite indian food and then i call him and he says he’s gonna stay another day. it’s almost like he doesn’t even want to come back home to me. i’m so tired. what wrong with me? i give him all my love and attention and it seems he doesn’t love me as much as he used to. i can’t help but ask him if he still loves me and he just gets mad but i can’t help it because of these reasons!! i don’t know how to cope.

Posted Jul 24, 2025, 2:49 AM UTC

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