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So there's this ex who has been nagging me to get back together. (I told myself Id rather end up single and alone than get back). I used to really be into him,and he knew. Which is why we are not together. He tested my "obsession" several times over a period of about 2 1/2 years. until i said enough and called it quits. Its now been almost 3 years But that dont mean i was over him.. So his nagging almost broke me. Some backstory, we were not on speaking terms for half of the time after we broke up. But I caved in and decided to just stay friendly and treat him like an old acquaintance. So when we started talking i found out life hadnt been too kind to him and at one point he had to get rid of everything and start over. Or maybe he lied ( he knows im very empathetic) Anyway during that time he would askme for some little financial aid as loans. Which he always paid back. (He never gave me any money while we dated despite me being a student when and he was working, Apparently he never trusted me) Anyway so after he started nagging about getting back together, I decide to test him. I tell him Im expending on my small business and i took out a loan but its not enough I ask him to help me ou with the docs and licences.. It wouldn't cost him even 10k. He says ok gives me a date. The day passes, nothing. after several weeks i remind him. He's quiet. So i sent him a message telling him I am happy I now know he will never change. I cant be with a man that can never assist me in anything. He ignores the message.. We dont talk for two weeks Later i see a message from a strange number with screenshots from our coversations, and "Kindly stop bothering my man" Introduces herself as his wife. Apparently I'm an ex who just wont let go of him. She has been stalking me on Tiktok and even followed me. I told him i want nothing to do with him and he should settle down with the wife and leave me alone. "what wife?!??" --the strange woman who screenshoted our conversations from your phone and send them to me through her phone and is stalking me?? Anyway that was months ago. I met a nice man who I adore. And he adores me as well. I'm so glad I never fell for his shenanigans. He still trying to lie about it and convince me up to today. Blocked him everywhere.