The art of virtual sex and BDSM.

Heya all! It's ya girl, DeliciousDeviant coming at you in search of advice. While I am pretty skilled in all things pleasing, teasing and satisfying my partner (both IRL and virtually) I have a pretty big evening ahead of me and I wanted to see if my like minded kinksters could provide me with extra ideas to add to the experience. I won't get in to how important it is to me that I absolutely melt his mind or why, bur being aware that it is and that I have been planning this for close to a week could be helpful/provide context.

The plan:

I plan on an JOI of sorts, but JOI+, if you will. I am hoping on elaborately describing what I want him to visualize while telling him how/when/what/where to touch, while also making sure that my position/the camera angle comes as close to the experience as humanly possible. It is of vital importance that I create an experience as close to the real deal as humanly possible.

What tools do I have available?

• My sextoys (think your basic kit; dildos, vibrators, buttplugs, rope, nippleclamps,...
• His sextoys. Last week I surprised him with a naughty carepackage of sorts, I made sure to include both a fleshlight (that I went out, touched and picked one that comes as close as possible to my texture/tightness) and an anal/ball stimulator.
• I plan on debuting some new lingerie that genuinely makes me feel like the hottest woman alive.
• Scent. I have gifted him a variety of scented candles that I also own and will be lighting.
• I have a massive mirror at the foot of my bed that could be included.

My gameplan:

1. Tease him throughout the day and get him a little worked up before we hop on a call. Just a little to break the seal.
2. Slowly work up to actual play through light touching, dirtytalk, making him tell me about his fantasies,... See where the conversation takes us. 3 Talk him through play, while letting him watch/listen to me play as well. Things I want to (try and) incorperate;

• Dirtytalk.
• Edging.
• Stories about my hotwifing.
• JOI.
• Worship (going both ways)
• Introduce him to his very own praisekink, as i'm pretty sure he has one and isn't quite aware.
• Anal play.
• Ruined orgasms.
• Milking.

Other relevant information;

• He doesn't identify as submissive but is happy to explore "in that direction", this is my first real chance/attempt with him and he deserves the world. So this is not as much domming as it is "maybe firmly guiding".
• I am very open minded and adventurous, have done a lot with a lot of people and am usually really confident. I do find myself being a little nervous because of how much I want to get it right and love him.

So here I am, seeing of this lovely community has any advice, input, ideas or comments to give me, so I can be the perfect guide to take the man of my dreams on a new journey.

Thanks in advance! ❤️