24/F + 25/M

Based on everything l've said what would you honestly do in my position ?

Me and my boyfriend have been together since January 2024. Throughout the relationship, there's been this girl from his past who's contacted him on and off l've known of her, not through snooping, but because he's told me when she's reached out. He's always maintained that he only slept with her twice, that it wasn't anything serious, and that she never even came to his house. I trusted his version of events, but I always had a gut feeling that something didn't fully add up.

Last week, out of nowhere, he told me she called again in June, but said he shut it down straight away. That conversation stayed with me, and I don't know why, but something just pushed me to reach out to her this week. What she told me didn't line up at all with what l'd been told. She said they were actually seeing each other properly that there were feelings involved, they'd told each other they loved each other, and she still cares about him to this day. She said she felt things were her fault why it ended and she always said she'd wait for him to be single again. She actually told me she still tried to reach out because she loves him. She also admitted she called him because she saw he'd viewed her public story, and that triggered her to think maybe he was open to speaking again.

She even said that in the past, whenever she tried to contact him, he would always tell her he had a girlfriend which is why she hadn't reached out for a while. But this time, during that rough patch we had in June when me and him weren't speaking (we hadn’t spoken in about 10 days and I did ignore all calls and texts from him ), he apparently viewed her story and that's what led to her calling him again. According to him, she asked if he was single, and he told he swore at her and said he "No". He later changed the story slightly, saying he told her that "me and you weren't talking" rather than outright saying he was single. He claims he rejected her and didn't engage. According to her she asked and he said "Yeah", she then responded saying "Well meet up with me if your single" and he "laughed and said he was going out".

Now I just feel confused. He's been so specific and firm in how he's described her to me a girl he slept with twice and had no emotional connection to but what she's told me paints a completely different picture. He admitted it was more than twice and she did go to his house. He said it lasted a month what went on between him and her from October to November 2023, though she begs to differ, she states it was 6/7 months but she doesn't remember what month they spoke or have anything from that time, she just kept saying we were locked in from October 2023 and it ended because of her fault in November 2023. She was very vague when I asked her when it all began and often ignored that question.

(Intially when i contacted her she was coming across as quite rude when I was being nice I just wanted to understand what went on as to why she still calls when he has a girlfriend said she loves him still and also said their previously dealings is irrelevant and none of my business”

We had an argument yesterday well I got very angry. We haven’t spoken since I unblocked him about an hour ago. I do love him, so much actually.

Their situationship was before me, it only bothered me because she was still popping up. I just feel stuck between two different stories and unsure of what's really true anymore. I want to believe this is salvageable, but is it?