sexy time in long distance

i feel like my hands are tied and i really need help w this.

me and my gf have been dating for 4 months in long distance and we basically stained in sexy time. we don’t have many ideas before and she’s hard to initiate. we’ve do it sometimes but it’s not fully satisfying for both of us, we’re having bad discussions and it’s really affecting both of us and specially her.

i tried everything but it’s getting tougher each day and i don’t know what to do anymore any advice and tips?

ps: we’re freshly out of teenage life and we both don’t have jobs yet so i can’t acquire any toy at the moment 😭😭😭😭