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AriaDaze_

I have too many crushes... and I can't say no to any of them šŸ˜…

Question

So here’s my problem: I have a lot of crushes (don’t judge šŸ˜…), and whenever one of them asks me for something, a favor, help, attention I just… do it. Even if it's inconvenient or draining. I don’t know how to say no, especially when it’s someone I like.

It’s like part of me wants to impress them or stay close to them, even if I know they probably don’t feel the same way. I end up prioritizing what they want instead of what I need.

Has anyone else gone through this? How do you deal with crushes when your heart says ā€œyesā€ but your brain says ā€œyou need boundariesā€?

Posted Jul 29, 2025, 6:11 AM UTC

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